Milquetoast Americans love to be afraid, and they love to live in constant fear. These fragile beings desire the government to step in and regulate all of our lives to their liking: the way we play, what we eat, where we smoke, when we can drink, how we drive, how we parent, where we educate – all under the pretense that it is for our own collective “good.” These people are not only hysterical about their own kids, but they are hysterical about all of our kids, and they use the power of the state to force others into obeying rules and preferences set forth by them because they believe that only they know what’s ultimately best for all. These are the self-anointed Safety Czars – mere “concerned” citizens who have a penchant for cross-examining the lifestyles of their fellow humans, and they are never lacking in “expert” advice or a slew of new ideas for more laws to defend each of us from ourselves.
So writes Karen De Coster in an article promoting the idea of “free range kids”. These are children, she says, whose childhoods are minimally regulated in terms of strict activities schedules, kids guarded by responsible but pragmatic notions on safety.
Children whose parents recognize that the happiness and spirit of childhood is rooted in self-learning and discovery absent an omnipresent eye, watching over a shoulder.
Fred Reed, an eccentric self-described “sociopath”, reflected on his own childhood, growing up in rural 1950s America. One of the chords that struck me:
Solzhenitsyn once told of stopping on some desert desert highway, getting out of his car, and marveling that no one knew where he was, or cared.
To wander into the great beyond that is the world outside of cell phone reception!
Related: MSNBC ran a story on a group of researchers who withdrew to remote Utah to live outside of civilization. They sought to gain insights on how connectedness alters our mental processes.
Also: Lenore Skenazy’s “Free Range Kids” site. “How to raise safe, self-reliant children (without going nuts with worry)”.







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